Vee, a former Big Brother Naija housemate and Nollywood actress, recently shared her thoughts on relationships and pregnancy. She’s determined to avoid getting pregnant by the “wrong man,” citing the challenges of dating in Lagos as a major factor in her decision.
According to Vee, her mission in life is to protect herself from unnecessary emotional pain and ensure she chooses a life partner carefully.
Vee wants to avoid situations that could lead to emotional distress, particularly those involving a “baby daddy” making mean remarks about her.
She prioritizes self-preservation and making careful decisions in her relationships, acknowledging that nobody can fully know a partner before committing.
Vee prefers to learn from other people’s experiences shared online rather than experiencing things herself, stating “People’s experience is the best teacher, not in my world”.
She emphasizes that avoiding pregnancy by the wrong man is her personal mission, not a universal rule, and she’s determined to spot signs and choose carefully.
Vee admits to being stubborn and hard-headed but insists she’s not stupid and will try her best to get it right when choosing a life partner.
“It is my mission in life to avoid the wrong man getting me pregnant. And it’s not to say I’m better than the women that have been in that position.
It’s simply because I know myself, I know what I’m like and I try to avoid certain situations that would put me in a state of psychosis. I’m passionate about not getting f*cked over and maybe that is what stops me from finding unapologetic love.I’m stubborn.
I’m hard-headed. But I’m not stupid. I need to make sure that when it comes to choosing a life partner, I try my best to get it right. You can’t know someone 100 per cent but you can try your best. People experience is the best teacher, not in my world. Especially when there’s the internet where people are sharing their experiences. I don’t need to experience something to know that it’s not going to work for me.” She said in a recent video Broadcast.
